her becoming ordinary. I see her on a downward path. And now she''s involved in a romantic relationship. Look at the kind of person she''s falling for. Are you going to continue neglecting her?"

“都是你的错，这条路是你强迫自己女儿走的，她本来成绩很好的，却因为你让她高考发挥失常，考了一个二三流的大学，你真狠心，就居然不管不问，就让她读了个二三流的大学。我原本有一个优秀的女儿，可是我看着她变成平庸之辈，看着她继续在下坡路上走，现在她谈恋爱了，你看看她爱上的都是些什么样的人？你现在还要对她不管不问吗？”

"How can I intervene? One''s success stems from themselves. Their true natures can''t be ignored. Teachers can guide their disciples, but training is all about personalized learning. Moreover, you know what kind of person your daughter is. She''s the kind of person who won''t give up until she obtains her goal. So, it''s best to let her experience the harshness of competition. Otherwise, she won''t admit defeat."

“我如何管？人是靠自己成才的，世人皆难逃本性。师傅领进门，修行在个人。况且你不是不知道你女儿是个什么样的人，她就是那种不到黄河心不死的人，那就只好让她去见识见识竞争的残酷，不然她是不会认输的。”

"Fine, if you don''t care about her studies, at least pay attention to her career. You mentioned that experiencing setbacks in society would benefit her, but if you keep ignoring her now, your precious daughter will end up marrying a poor guy from the lowest class."

“好，她学业你不管就算了，工作上你也不管，说是让她在社会上多经历些挫折，对她有好处，可是你现在如果再不管，你的宝贝女儿就要嫁给那个鸡窝里面出来的穷小子了。”