Even when searching for a job, applying for the same position at different companies with different interviewers leads to different requirements.

就连找工作，找同样的职位，不同公司面对不同的面试官都是不同的要求。

Some people admire you and feel an instant connection. Both sides feel positive during the conversation, and you can sense that they value you. The interviewer decides that you are the talent they are looking for, suitable for the position they are hiring.

有的人欣赏你，一见如故，一聊双方都有好感，你觉得对方重视你，面试官决定你就是他要找的人才，适合他所招聘的岗位。

On the other hand, some companies may not really need to fill the position but are merely testing the waters to see if they can find a perfect candidate. In such cases, the demands can be high because they do not really need to hire someone. When facing these kinds of companies and interviewers, the result can be disappointing and disheartening.

而有的人或许是因为根本就不缺这个职位，只是虚挂职位看能不能淘到真金白银，所以要求极高，因为他们不缺人，并没有实际意义上的需求，遇到这样的公司，这样的面试官往往让人失望，败兴而归。

Therefore, the same person with the same abilities, looking for the same job simultaneously, can have vastly different outcomes depending on the interviewer.

所以同样的人，同样的能力，在同一时间段去找同样职位的工作，因为面对的面试官不同其结果也是天差地别的。

The differences between people play a decisive role in society.

人与人的差异化在社会上起着决定作用。

These experiences and reflections on job hunting can be extended to the definition of love.

这些找工作的经验和总结，其实是可以延伸到爱情的定义。

Love is mutual admiration and liking between two people. Marriage must be built on the foundation of love.

爱情就是两人相互欣赏、相互喜欢，婚姻一定是建立在爱情的基础上的。

Love must come before marriage. Inverting this order can easily lead to bitter consequences.

必定是先有爱情，后有婚姻。本末倒置，很容易自食苦果。

"I won''t talk much, but I must tell you the path you''ve chosen is very tough, and the result may not be as you hoped."

“别的我不想多说，我只是想告诉你你选的这条路是很艰难的，而且结果并不一定如你所愿。”

"In this world, every choice comes with risks. Nothing is guaranteed to be a hundred p